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Eliza's avatar

It's so refreshing to read this! Growing up I had a really weird relationship with my name (I was always alienated by myself and others cuz my name is quite uncommon in the region I grew up) so I ended up hating it for the longest time. I'm now trying to reconnect with it! But beautifully written post, really enjoyed reading it <3

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nam's avatar

aw this is so relatable. i too have recently just grown to appreciate my name. thanks for sharing and goodluck on your journey. Katherine is a lovely name!

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KC Calpo's avatar

I use different versions of my name to remember how, where, or which life stage I know them from. And yes, it's jarring to hear or see my actual legal name used by people other than biological family or those in government agencies 🤭

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nam's avatar

Hahahaha same! totally get it. 🤭

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Barb Natividad 🇵🇭🇺🇸's avatar

I actually have two first names: Barbra Ann but no one has ever called me that. When I was naturalized I dropped my mom’s maiden name and adopted Ann as my middle name. So weird that you mentioned people with two first names!

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nam's avatar

see i can't explain it but Barbra Ann just fits better imo! beautiful name 🌷

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